Our History


Scope and Urgency of the Need:

  • 10,375 children were in foster care in the State of Oregon in 2016 (Annie E. Casey Foundation
    Kids Count Data Center).
  • 28.4% of Oregon’s foster children originate from Multnomah, Clackamas, and Washington
    Counties combined with an additional 8.2% originating from Marion County.
  • Research shows that more than any other intervention, it is the quality and quantity of family
    time that is the best predictor for whether or not a child can safely reunite with his/her birth
    parents (Simms and Bolden, 1991).
  • Oregon’s child welfare system (DHS) is generally able to provide 1 hour per week of supervised
    family time.
  • Approximately 56% of DHS involved families ultimately reunite (as compared to 63% of TFR
    involved families).
  • It costs taxpayers approximately $2,200/month (conservatively) to keep a child in foster care;
    even with maximum TANF and food stamp benefits, it costs taxpayers approximately
    $800/month to keep them with their birth parents.
  • Long term outcomes for children (education, criminality, morbidity) are better when children
    can grow up safely within their birth families (Lloyd and Barth, 2011).
  • Males who age out of the foster care system are 4 times as likely as the general male population
    to be arrested and 6 times as likely to be convicted for a crime. The same ratio is true for
  • As a result of the well-known ACE Study (Adverse Childhood Experiences) in the early 1990’s,
    the CDC concluded that child abuse is, in fact, the “gravest and most costly public health issue in
    the United States. [Study researchers] calculated that its overall costs exceeded those of cancer
    or heart disease and that eradicating child abuse in America would reduce the overall rate of
    depression by more than half, alcoholism by two-thirds, and suicide, IV drug use, and domestic
    violence by three-quarters. It would also have a dramatic effect on workplace performance and
    vastly decrease the need for incarceration.” (Van der Kolk, M.D., Bessel The Body Keeps the

The needs are overwhelming. COVID-19 has amplified stress and anxiety for our families. With the surge of needs and limited government help for birth parents, your gift is more important than ever.


While we are so incredibly thankful that foster children in Oregon are receiving the support and resources they need during this unprecedented time, sadly, there are literally zero resources for birth parents working toward reunification with their children.

The birth parents we serve already have overcome so many barriers and struggles prior to coming to The Family Room. These parents now face unemployment, limited access to sobriety support and therapy groups, and numerous barriers that could interrupt their progress. Without your help, their healing and growth are at risk.


Your gift of $50 today provides birth parents the resources they need to continue healing and stay engaged with their children, even during these uncertain times.

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